We’ve all looked at someone else and thought, “Why are they more successful/beautiful/intelligent/perfect than me?” Feelings of inadequacy bubble up and suddenly we’re beating ourselves up for not being as X, Y, Z as the person next to us. Often, comparing ourselves can be detrimental and result in a whole host of negative feelings. While feeling superior to someone can be a temporary high, constant comparisons generally end in lows. But comparing is a natural human trait. And it’s not always totally bad. Really, it’s about turning your comparisons into something productive — and remembering to be kind, compassionate, and a […]
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